I always feel especially bad for families who experience a loss during the holiday season. And December seems to be non-stop Christmas parties, luncheons and get-togethers. As others celebrate, these heartbroken people grieve. The Occassion becomes a painful reminder; perhaps for many years to follow. Until the grief becomes less painful, and they can celebrate the memories along with the holiday.
The loss of our animal companions is no less significant. They are members of our family, and we mourn their passing.
My brother works away from home for periods of two to three weeks. Leaving his older dog became more difficult with each trip as he could not be sure Blue would be waiting for him upon his return.
Unfortunately, that was the case this trip.
For the longest time, my parents have provided a second home for Blue while my brother is away. They loved Blue as their own. He was in the best place and could not have been provided better care during his final moments.
The following is a tribute to Blue – a tribute to Senior Dogs
Welcome to your new home
Welcome to your new home little one, we’re excited to have you finally with us. Our parents have spent much time researching how best to care for you. They’ve picked the coziest bed, the cuddliest toys and are equipped with everything necessary to give you the best start in life.
You are loved -you will be happy
And when you grow, big enough to get into mischief, you will undoubtedly do things our parents disapprove of. They will make it clear that what you did was wrong. They will, with patience, encourage you to do it differently – for as many ‘tries’ as it takes.
And when you succeed, they will shower you with praise and nurture your confidence.
You are loved -you will be happy
Our parents will set rules and boundaries, and you will learn manners. They will teach you to be respectful, and how they expect you to behave around others. These acts of love take time, effort, and tolerance.
When others notice and complement our parents on a job well done, they will look at you with such pride. There is no greater reward than knowing your parents are well-pleased.
You are loved – you will be happy
Accidents happen, and we become ill – it’s a part of life. Our parents will be by your side, make trips with you to the doctor, clean up accidents without frustration, and stroke your hair as you recover. Love is the best medicine.
You are loved -you will be happy
New members may join your pack – a brother or sister. You will both remain very special to our parents. You will each have your unique ways of creating happiness and laughter in your home. No one can be replaced. No one will feel left out. You are a family.
We have the best parents little one; you will see.
They are here for us when we need them and for however long we need them – unconditionally.
You are loved -you will be happy
It’s time now for me to say goodbye. Please look after them little one; they will be sad. The man you love, I too call ‘dad’.
I have been happy and treated very well. Every day a new adventure but alas I am tired; too weak to explore.
I have been blessed with a wonderful family. This dog could not have asked for more.
I have been loved – I have been happy
Photo of Blue & Penelope taken by Sarah Graham Photography
Jeanne Melanson says
Aww, so sorry for your family’s loss. It’s never easy losing a pet. Blue looked like such a good dog, too. Very gentle. I’m sure he brought a lot of smiles and laughter to your family. There’s nothing quite like having a dog love you. Peace.
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Sadie says
Thanks Jeanne. Yes, plenty of ‘Blue’ tails to be told in future – he was a character.
KYla @ Eco cool dog says
This is such a touching tribute to a wonderful dog ❤️ I’m so sorry for you families loss.
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Sadie says
Thank you Kyla. Blue was becoming more and more uncomfortable so a difficult decision was made. He is at peace now.
Jenna,Mark “HuskyCrazed” Drady says
Oh my dog. That was so very beautiful and sad all in one xx
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Sadie says
Thanks Jenna!
Carol Bryant says
This is so touching and having been down this road with my dog, I know exactly what you are feeling. Very beautiful and the worst part of being a pet parent. Their lives are so short.
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Sadie says
So short, and so meaningful. Thank you for your comment Carol.
dogvills says
I have a little doggy who is getting older and older, it’s sad but I lover her tons!
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Sadie says
The price we pay for the joy they bring into our lives. We have to enjoy and love them for as long as we are lucky enough to be able to.
Emma says
So heartbreaking! We have a senior dog and it breaks our hearts to think that some day she will not be with us, but losing a beloved family member this time of year is the worst time.
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Sadie says
Thanks Emma – we have to enjoy them while we have them.
Kitty Cat Chronicles says
A beautiful tribute that brought tears to my eyes. So sorry for your family’s loss. I hope that you are all able to reflect on the happy memories during this difficult time. That photo of Blue and Penelope is so precious!
Sadie says
Thank you.
Carleen says
Awww. This is so touching. Thanks for sharing it!
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Sadie says
Thank you Carleen.
Fur Everywhere says
So very sorry to hear this. There have been so many companion losses in the blogging world this year, including our own.
I hope that you can all provide him comfort during this difficult time.
Sadie says
We will. Thank you.