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FINDING JACK

July 13, 2015 | 4 Comments

WHEN THE WAR ENDS, HOW DO YOU LEAVE YOUR BEST FRIEND BEHIND?

A Tribute to War Dogs

findingjack

 

Last month, we introduced you to the movie ‘Max.’  Continuing with the theme of War Dogs, it gives  me great pleasure to share with you ‘Finding Jack.’ A rare gem of a book written by Gareth Crocker.

I take my time working through a book.  I’ll pick it up ‘now and then.’  Finding Jack is a book that captivates the reader early on and is not easy to put down.  The short chapters are deceiving; it’s easy to justify ‘just one more,’ over, and again.  Immediately, we connect with Fletcher, the main character and learn of the heartbreak that motivates him to sign up for the Vietnam war.

In a world where, understandably, if men survive, many find it difficult to overcome the stress, emotional and more often than not, the physical trauma endured.  A dog would be a welcome comrade.  Our introduction to Jack is anything but wagging tails and kisses.  Tissues required.  This story depicts how even the darkest world is made brighter with the presence of a very special dog.  Jack not only protected the soldiers in his unit, he boosted morale among the entire base.  Except for a few good men, this comradery, lasts only as long as the war.

This beautiful, poignant story is a tribute to the Vietnam war dogs,

many of whom gave their lives to protect American and allied soldiers. Shortly after troops began to pull out of the war, it’s believed the U.S. government ordered that the dogs be left behind.  It was proving too expensive to transport them home.  They were labeled as ‘surplus military equipment’ and left to fates unknown.

Fewer than two hundred dogs made it home.  This beautiful story about loyalty, perseverance, and hope, is dedicated to the dogs that saved the lives of more than ten thousand soldiers.

 

Note: this novel contains language that may be offensive to some readers.

 

Gareth Crocker

Categories: BOOKS & ENTERTAINMENT Tagged: Believe, Dogs, Faith, Family, Forever Home, Hope, Inspiration, Journey, Life, Love, Loyal, Safe, Soldiers, Trust, Wardogs

A DOG’S PURPOSE

March 21, 2015 | 2 Comments

A Dog's Purpose
Who says only cats have nine lives?

In this beautiful story ‘A Dog’s Purpose,’ written by W. Bruce Cameron, we learn of one dog’s many lives; some lives are brief, and others end tragically.  Each glimpse of a lifetime, however, is heart-warming and provides insight touching on everyday, real-life situations lived by dogs we all know or at least know of.

The story is told from the dog’s perspective.  Perhaps that is why it is so emotionally powerful.  Although there are several laugh-out-loud moments, be warned, this emotional story is a real tear-jerker.

You will want to put this book down several times while ready the story. ONLY to hug your dogs and hold them close

So far, ‘A Dog’s Purpose’ is my absolute favourite book – of any genre.  This book is not ‘a loaner,’ you will want to read this book more than once (and I RARELY read a book a second time).

The Purpose of a dog (no spoilers), is to love and to be loved.

Thank you, Mr. Cameron for writing and sharing this book – such a beautiful gift to the world.

Categories: BOOKS & ENTERTAINMENT Tagged: Adopt, Beautiful, Believe, Best Friend, Cuddles, Dogs, Enjoy Life, Faith, Faithful, Family, Inspiration, Journey, Life, Loyal

obx 2014 – a distant memory

December 27, 2014 | Leave a Comment

FEATURING THE COROLLA WILD HORSES

OBX

This year we did something a bit different for our holiday.  A ‘family’ holiday.  Not just the ‘Parker Pack’, the majority of the clan!

Sister, with her husband and two small children, picked Granny and Granddad up from the airport nearest them and also travelled by car to Outer Banks, North Carolina.

Henry, Reese, hubby and I packed up the truck and headed out to join them.  We made one stopover en route just outside Washington.  Next day we collected Father-in-law and his lady friend from the airport a little more than an hour from our rented accommodation.  The long story version includes luggage issues and a second trip to the airport.  We’ll stick with the shorter version.

My husband scored points for finding The Dolphin Inn.  This beautiful seven bedroom home located in Southern Shores, North Carolina  sleeps 17.  Our group consisted of 8 adults, two children, and two dogs.  Yes, The Dolphin Inn is Pet-friendly and has a Fenced-In Dog Kennel Area under Live Oak Tree for shade.

Staying at The Dolphin Inn is like staying at a friend’s place – and from now on when we visit, we will be staying at a friend’s place.  Our host Jorge Herrada checked in with us to make sure we had everything we needed and provided so many suggestions regarding places to visit and things to see and do.  Thank you, Jorge!

Dolphin Inn

The layout is perfect – you certainly don’t feel as though you’re tripping over each other.  The spacious kitchen, dining area with large table and plenty of seating  and great room are all open on the top level.  The great room boasts a selection of books, games, movies, a gas Fireplace, and a Large Screen Television with an abundant selection of Movie Channels (HBO, Showtime, Cinemax), a Tivo/DVR, and free Netflix shows.  If you need to stay connected to work amenities also include free wireless internet.  Budding astronomers in your group will enjoy the 70MM Refractor Telescope on the top level, set up to capture the galactic views on one of the many clear evenings.

Location

The accommodation is situated just over a block to the ocean (a nice little walk with the dogs) and with decks framing the Inn, there is no shortage of picturesque views of the ocean.  The Inn has a private pool, hot tub, volleyball court and pirate ship playhouse for the kids.  View of deer not guaranteed but a definite bonus!

Windblown Pups

Windblown Pups

The Beach

Guest privileges include Golf Club membership at the local Kilmarlic Golf Course, Bowling Club membership at the Outer Banks Bowling Center, as well as free boat launching at a nearby Marina.  There is also free Tennis at the private tennis courts nearby and discounted rates on several other activities such as the wild horse tours.

We made several trips to visit the quaint town of Duck, which is located just over two miles North of Southern Shores.  We rented kayaks from Kitty Hawk Kites (located in Duck) and enjoyed the beautiful views while burning off a few of the calories consumed at some of the local eateries.

Kayaking

One additional shop to mention is ‘Salty Paws Biscuits ‘ for All Natural Dog Treats!

Kitty Hawk, located just two miles south is convenient for groceries and other conveniences.

During our stay, we also visited Currituck Beach Light Station.  Henry & Reese waited with Granny as John (hubby) and I ventured up the 220 steps to view the horizon at the top.  It seems Henry & Reese were as much of an attraction to other visitors as the lighthouse!  I’m sure Henry enjoyed the attention.

Inside the lighthouse

Lloyd Vernon  Gaskill (and his companion) - Lighthouse Keeper 1939 - 1940

Lloyd Vernon Gaskill (and his companion) – Lighthouse Keeper 1939 – 1940

Lighthouse

The one definite thing on my list to do was the Corolla Wild Horse tour.  The Spanish Mustangs living in Outer Banks are the last in the world.  We booked our tour with Corolla Outback Adventures.  Proceeds from the tours are used to ensure the herd of wild Colonial Spanish Mustangs are protected, and responsibly managed. The tour company was founded by the Bender family who also generously donated a large portion of land on the northernmost Currituck Outer Banks where the horses roam freely.

Our history began in 1962 when the Benders began taking folks on tours from Kill Devil Hills to Corolla, there was no paved roads past Kitty Hawk to Duck, and phone numbers had 4 digits.

Over the years Corolla Outback Adventures has preserved a family history and tradition that was started in 1962 by my mother and father. Bender’s Beach Service guided fishing, hunting and sightseeing parties, sharing with them the beauty of the area we call home.

Growing up beyond where the road ends has given me an entirely different perspective. Things may change around us but this area remains timeless. Our family donated over 60 acres of land as a Wild Horse Sanctuary and we are fortunate to have exclusive access to observe them in their natural habitat.

I hope you’ll join us on our next OBX wild horse tour!

– Joan Bender, Owner & Jay Bender, Manager

Travel Buddies

Scars of life

Wherever you go...

Cattle Egrets perch on the backs of the wild Mustangs. The horses welcome them as the Egrets feast on bugs, horse flies, and ticks, keeping them away from the horses.

The Other Outfit

Tour

At one time (centuries ago), these tree stumps (buried far beneath the sand) were part of a Maritime Forest.

Maritime Forest
After the tour we enjoyed a beverage in the ‘Beer Garden.’
Beer GardenHenry & Reese were quite happy to relax at the Dolphin Inn when their people were out doing ‘people things.’  As you can see, there were plenty of opportunities to take them out (and wear them out) on other occasions.  OBX offers the best of both worlds.  A ‘dog-friendly’ holiday destination.  We will visit again.

http://www.dolphininnobx.com/default.html

https://www.corollawildhorses.com/

http://corollaoutback.com/

http://www.corollabeergarden.com/

http://www.currituckbeachlight.com/

http://www.saltypawsbiscuits.com

 

 

Categories: TRAVEL Tagged: Beautiful, Dog Friendly, Enjoy Life, Fun, Journey, Traveling With Pets, Treat

SANTA’S SLEIGH HAS WINGS!

December 9, 2014 | Leave a Comment

INTRODUCING PILOTS N PAWS CANADA

http://youtu.be/ODhr2UD4vAs

How blessings brighten as they take their flight – Edward Young.

Santa’s mission is one of the most important of the year; delivering toys to well-behaved children across the world – and the not so well-behaved children.  Everyone deserves a chance to experience hope and feel loved!

Santa could not complete the task on his own and relies on the help of his team: Mrs. Claus, the elves and of course his herd of flying reindeer.

Equally warm-hearted Samaritans are the Pilots N Paws Canada team who work tirelessly together to ensure animals in danger are relocated to safety.  I have contacted founder Gini Green, and Senior Transport Coordinator Deanna Bliuvas on several occasions and have received a response the same day.  Often within the hour!

It is hardly surprising that Gini and her team are so reactive.  The coordination of ground transportation, flight crew, and rescue organizations is a lot to oversee.  Especially considering the distance across which some of these missions occur.  Extreme time management skills are required and demonstrated daily.

Thank you, Gini and Deanna for taking the time to speak with me about Pilots N Paws Canada.

When was Pilots N Paws Canada established?  What inspired you to start the organization?

Gini Green launched Pilots N Paws Canada on June 15th, 2012 as a result of working with Deanna earlier in the year.  The two women worked on a rescue mission for another organization involving more than 25 sled dogs that needed transport from Quebec to BC.  Gini says, “The project turned out to be one and a half months of the most intense work ever!”  It was expensive and time-consuming and although successful, Gini decided there had to be a better way.  Gini contacted Debi Boies the Co-founder of Pilots N Paws in the US.  With Gini’s background in rescue, Debi felt a Canadian Pilots N Paws program would do well with Gini leading the way.  And so began Pilots N Paws Canada.  Debi was happy to give her license and support by way of their trademarked branding and Green launched Pilots N Paws Canada as a Canadian run and operated, stand-alone organization.

Mission of Organization

To provide free air transport support to Canadian rescues and shelters for their injured, stray, abandoned, and abused animals – including wildlife.  Gini says, “if someone will fly them we will consider it.”

The transport of animals between vast distances would be a large undertaking for just one person.  Pilots N Paws Canada is a large team of people networking and working together in relay fashion.   How big is your team and in what capacity do members participate?

The organization is comprised of two groups; private planes with owner/pilots and commercial flights with Petscorts.  Currently, there are more than 190 volunteer pilots registered with PNPC across Canada.  Everyone on the team is a volunteer.

Deanna, based in Osgoode Ontario, is the Senior Transport Coordinator for Ontario and Eastern Canada.   This role involves working with the many different types of rescue groups and pilots located in those regions to collect current information and documentation (veterinary records, etc.).  Deanna organizes everything from drop off in the beginning to the pick-up details at the other end.  Including temporary fosters, ground transport to and from air fields, equipment aspects to providing advice on safe ways to transport a particular animal.  Assistance is provided by Louise Shane, a PNPC Transport Coordinator from Almonte, Ontario.

Gini Green, based on Gabriola Island off the BC coast, handles all transports coming west from Manitoba to BC with the help of Shelly Loree another Transport Coordinator out of Airdre, Alberta.

Sometimes the pilots of the smaller planes are not able to take on a request due to distance or bad weather conditions.  That is when members of the Petscort program assist.

Vicki Baker is the Senior Transport Coordinator for Petscorts and is based in Nova Scotia.  Vicki works with volunteers from the general public who are taking commercial flights for business or pleasure.  Coordinating with the commercial airlines, she helps rescue organizations and shelters fly animals that are added to the volunteer passengers’ tickets.  Matching up the rescue/shelter needs with available flights is a major juggling act but more people are becoming aware of the need.  Currently, Vicky is contacted by several regular travelers before they take a flight, to inquire as to whether there is an animal they can help transport.  These passengers are called PETSCORTS.

Petscorts are met at the airport by the transporting rescue organization with proper crates and documentation for travel.  They are also met at the other end of their flight.  An easy, yet incredibly valuable gift provided by Petscorts.  Vicky is assisted with her activities by Janice Templeman in the Ottawa region and Nicole Wilks in Kelowna BC.

The entire team of transport coordinators is spread out across our country to provide the best use of time differences possible.  All these women do this on a voluntary basis and get as much joy out of seeing a successful transport as the rescues do.

What security measures are in place to ensure the safety of animals (and Petscorts) during transportation?  For example screening, training workshops or online training seminars?

Rescues are required to provide veterinary records and current documentation regarding the condition of the animal being transported.  The information is recorded and accessible by all members of the team so that, at a moment’s notice; another person can pick up and go if needed.

Transport can be less stressful on animals when flying in small private planes. They have the dull steady sound of the engine and calming environment with the pilot.  Many pilots have noticed a positive change in a dog’s physiology from the time they are picked up to the time they are dropped off.  The dogs seem calmer as if they know they are safe and going somewhere good.

The other benefit to flying in smaller airplanes; they normally go through small airfields rather than major airports.  Meaning there is a reduced threat to the general public health wise.

Most of our pilot volunteers work in professional fields and are very respectful of the safety measures and protocols we have put in place.  All animals must be secured during flight, of course, so we use crates or harness restraints to keep them from hopping in a pilot’s lap during the trip or moving around the cabin.

The Transport Coordinators go through several weeks of training and have access to a training manual that covers most situations.  Working as a team means there is always someone more senior who can offer advice.  We have learned that no two flights are the same, so we try to maintain best practices and allow for flexibility in special situations.   For example, an emergency flight for an injured animal can’t be delayed for two weeks of quarantine.  Instead, we would have the pilot, and all involved, follow special instructions on how to prepare the plane interior, how the animal is to be handled etc.  We do our best to follow international standards for safe transportation of animals.  Volunteers are shadowed, when putting together their first few transports until they acquire the confidence and knowledge to handle things on their own.

As a registered Petscort, I am aware that the terms ‘typical’ and ‘generally’ do not apply.  Each situation is unique.   Can you describe to readers what the work entails, the transportation process and requirements?

The Pilots N Paws Canada Transportation Coordinator will liaise with Rescue Organizations and Pilots and work out schedules, destinations and any special requirements (medication requirements, etc.).  There is a forum where requests for ground transport assistance are posted.  Pilots, and Petscorts in and around these areas can log on and offer to assist with sections of the relay.  The forum can be reached at www.pilotsnpawscanadaforum.com

Unfortunately, there may be some turbulence within this well-organized process; weather can make things difficult; strong wind over the lakes and our Canadian below freezing temperatures.  Also, remote locations where no one is around is also a challenge as it can prove unsafe for a pilot to have to land where there is no fuel or help available.  Pilots N Paws demonstrates strong determination and will and do what they can to come up with plans B and C in such cases.  They have been known to even go up to plan H in some cases, rejuggling to fit a rescue groups needs.

How is the program funded?

PNPC does not receive any formal funding.  They, like most, non profit organizations, rely on donations from the general public to keep things going.

Unlike rescue organizations, which have veterinary costs to deal with, PNPC’s running costs are small (less than $10,000/year).  Even so, running any organization, getting the word out to encourage more pilots to join and generating awareness to rescues across Canada become familiar with the program does cost money.

Pilots N Paws Canada do try other fund raising activities to reduce costs including their online ‘Anniversary Auction,’ featuring amazing products and beautiful Canadian artwork donated by supporters across the country.

They also offer items like a clothing line through a Canadian company Garage Rocks,’ that specializes in working with non- profit groups.  They make the product available to the general public and pay PNPC a percentage of each sale. http://www.garagerockapparel.com/stores/pilots-n-paws-canada/

The thing that makes these trips possible is that each pilot donates hundreds of dollars of their  own money to cover fuel costs and landing fees for these flights.

PNPC has a goal set for 2015 to help offset some of the costs for travel to harder to reach remote locations.  They plan to do this by starting a special Fur Flying Fuel Fund.  Donors will know that 100% of their donation will go directly towards making a flight happen.  Each flight costs approximately $150-$350 per hour.  Donors will be able to select the amount they wish to contribute.  Ideally, a group or a company might sponsor an entire flight.  Similar to the expense incurred by our pilots, these contributors  would also be eligible for a tax receipt for their donation.

As a fellow volunteer, I understand there are days that can be overwhelming, and it may be hard to stay focused and positive.  Tell us about a story that inspires you – one that warms your heart and reminds you why you do what you do.

There have been so many success stories that were one of a kind, it is hard for Gini and Deanna to choose just one.  Both agree the story of Nala was incredibly emotional and inspirational.

http://www.pilotsnpawscanada.com/2012/10/26/nala/

Nala

What are some issues that frustrate you when it comes to the welfare and rescue of animals?   What are your thoughts on how these issues might be addressed and overcome?

Overpopulation of animals due to people not being responsible and not having their pets spayed/neutered.  The irrational desire to breed their own pet which will likely result in a hundred homeless animals being euthanized or spending their short lives in shelters unwanted.  There are only so many homes available – more people need to adopt and not shop for their new pet.

The lack of awareness by the general public that many puppy mills exist here in Canada.  There are also many hoarding situations in every province that rescues continually need to step up to help.  Homes are needed for the survivors of these horrible situations.

Saddest of all is the culling of regular dogs, where unwanted and abandoned dogs are shot and killed.  These things are all happening in our country yet most of the general public is unaware.

We need more media interest and coverage to make the general public aware of the issues happening here in Canada.

For people who might be wondering how they can help – even if their time is limited, what would you suggest and how can they apply to assist?

Wherever people are in their lives, there is a rescue group or shelter that would benefit from their support.  There are so many groups that take care of a wide range of animals, specializing in their care and helping to rehome them into a perfect situation. West Coast Rottweiler’s who focus on the black and tan dogs, Friendly Giants who specialize in large breeds.  Small Animal Rescue who take care of the bunnies, chinchillas, hedgehogs and all things furry and small, reptile rescues, horse rescues, exotic bird rescues.  There are also many wonderful wildlife rescues that all could use a helping hand.  Donations of crates, food, towels, blankets, leashes, and toys.  To have all these things provided would make a difference for groups with small to no budget.

PNPC themselves are always looking for volunteers to become part of their team of Transport Coordinators.  There are also many events that PNPC gets invited to attend across the country so having people volunteer to attend a one or two-day event to assist our team is extremely valuable to us.

There are many ways any person can become involved. Including becoming a PETSCORT!

Do you mind sharing with us your goals for the future?

To help MORE, in MORE areas and to expand the team.  More Pilots and Petscorts mean more animals are transported to safety.

Short term goal: To implement the Fuel Fund in 2015 to help offset costs for the volunteer pilots.

Long term goal: To be able to expand our support to Spay/Neuter Clinics across the country.

Is there anything else you would like people to know about PNP Canada?

Pilots N Paws Canada are in the semi-finals in the AVIVA contest.  Their goal is to draw attention to the issues and help six remote communities with spay and neuter.  http://tinyurl.com/voteforpilotsnpawscanada 

The event ends Dec 10 (tomorrow).  PLEASE VOTE FOR THEM!

Team members offer encouragement and support to one other.  Encouragement is especially important during winter months when travel is put on hold due to poor weather conditions.  The team ensures morale does not waiver and spirits remain high.  The missions performed by the team often mean the difference between life and death for many animals.  The Pilots N Paws Canada team celebrates each successfully completed mission and does not hesitate for a moment before scheduling the next transport.  In fact, there are often several transports being arranged at one time.  A true-north strong spirit indeed!

Each mission is different and may have a variety of requirements.  Depending on flights arrival and departure times, a foster home may be required for the animal(s) being transported until the final leg of the journey can be completed.  Members of each mission are selected based on location and availability, ensuring the transport is as seamless as possible.

I am proud to be a registered Petscort with Pilots and Paws.  Although I have not yet been scheduled to assist with transport, I continue to check the forum and will respond to transport postings I am able to assist.  That’s okay; Rudolph was an underdog too.  When called upon that foggy Christmas Eve, he proudly led his team ensuring another successful mission.

Pilot’s N Paws Canada have completed more than 500 missions and continue to work hard throughout the year to transport animals to safety.  Success stories such as Nala’s will truly warm your heart this holiday season – the season of giving.

Well done Pilot’s N Paws Canada, your generosity and beautiful tales of rescue will go down in history!

To find out more about Pilots N Paws Canada, and how you can register to become a Petscort or assist as a Pilot, please visit their website http://www.pilotsnpawscanada.com/

Categories: ADOPTABLES, RESCUE GROUPS & SHELTERS Tagged: Canada, Dogs, For a Cause, Forever Home, Foster, Goodwill, Hope, Inspiration, Journey, Loyal, Pets, Rescue, Safe, Selfless Acts of Kindness, Trust

A BEAUTIFUL LIFE – REMEMBERING CHARLIE

August 24, 2013 | 8 Comments

John was unable to alarm the bike; Charlie kept setting it off.

John was unable to alarm the bike; Charlie kept setting it off.

My fiancé, and I, had just purchased our first house together, in Addlestone, Surrey, U.K. It wasn’t a home, until we adopted Oscar and Charlie. Yes, my fiancé and I enjoyed each other’s company, however, there’s just something extra special about coming home to the greeting of an animal companion. Even the worst day, can be turned around with a cuddle from a furry friend.

Together, we went to Katz Castle and watched, as the cats played together in their pens. Oscar and Charlie were two of the older kittens in the shelter, and it seemed everyone else was interested in the babies. Also, it seemed sad to think of brother and sister being separated. We decided they would both come home with us.

For the next few months, we enjoyed watching them play together. Oscar was full of energy, and would tear around the house; often pouncing on his unsuspecting sister. Charlie remained gracious and rarely objected.

My husband, and I flew to Canada to be married, and after much consideration, we asked neighbours to visit, and care for the cats. We decided they would be happier together in their own home, as opposed to a cat hotel. Anyone with pets, knows how hard it is to leave them. The guilt generated as they stretch out in the suitcase, as if to say “no, please don’t go.” Oscar got out the front door, while we were away, and was hit by a car. We learned of this sad news soon after arriving home. I had walked into the house, excited to see Charlie and Oscar. I saw only Charlie, and realized immediately, something was wrong. I felt remorse for having left them, and tried to put on a brave face for our neighbours; they were, of course, also devastated.

Charlie seemed relieved that we were home, and stayed close by us as much as possible. She soon adapted to being an only child; playing solo with her toys, or staring us down until we picked up the end of a fuzzy mouse to participate in the game. She seemed content and happy to receive all the attention. Attention, not only from us, but also from Edith, the elderly neighbour next door.

A vast number of villages in England, are made up of ‘semi-detached’ houses, with non, soundproof ‘lean-to’s’ between properties on one side, and another residence on the other side. We lived in such a property. Edith, lived in the house next to us; our ‘lean-to’s’ adjoined. We used ours as a laundry room, and through-way from the front of the house to the back garden. The back door had been fitted with a cat-flap for Charlie. She never ventured far, and enjoyed lazing about in sunny spots. One day, I was folding clothes, and I heard Edith speaking in a sing-song voice to Charlie. “There you are Charlie Bear (our ‘pet’ name for Charlie), you’re a beautiful, spoiled girl; yes, you are. This cream makes your coat lovely and shiny, and you certainly do enjoy it.” And then, she laughed and continued her one-sided conversation, while, I imagined Charlie to be lapping up her cream, quite contentedly. Edith was from the south of England, the land of cream and scones. Only the most fatty of creams would do. Hardly surprising that Charlie was filling out! We noticed she had started to gain some weight and decided to cut down her meal portions. Now we knew, why it wasn’t making a difference.

Although Charlie had become heavier, it did not slow her down. I had just had a shower, and thankfully dressed before heading downstairs. As I approached the top of the stairs, Charlie appeared in the open window, across from me; in her mouth, was the biggest blackbird I had ever seen.

The sound a cat makes, when they are holding a prize, is hideous. Not, however, to be outdone by the noise emitted by said cat’s horrified guardian. My shrieking, did not achieve a desirable resolution. Instead of disappearing back out of the window, Charlie herself flew into the house, landing on the stairs. She continued to the bottom, and with one backwards glance; as if to sarcastically say “you’re welcome,” she disappeared out of the living room window.

My shrieking had turned into tears, as I watched this poor bird succumb to its’ wounds. Cats have a natural prey drive, and it doesn’t matter if you serve them all the cream in Devon, they won’t lose that natural instinct to hunt. Later, when the shock of it all subsided, I made a mental note to purchase more realistic toys. Perhaps that would work.

I had nearly made it to the bottom of the stairs, and was trying to figure out how I could avoid the scene of the murder, and make it to the living room. Our front door, and the stairway, were separated by a mere 3ft, by 3ft square; barely the wing-span of a Blackbird. As I stood there, in tears, the blurred vision of Edith, suddenly appeared, through the frosted glass in the door. She bent down and pushed open the mail slot in the door. “What’s happened”? She asked. As her gaze moved to the floor she realized what had, in fact, occurred. “Oh dear”, she fretted. Then, she disappeared around the corner, leaving me stranded. Just as quickly Edith reappeared. “Charlie, you naughty girl”, she scolded. I leaped from the third step up, into the bay window of the living room. Edith tried, unsuccessfully, to open the door. Latch-bolts seem like a great idea until you become stuck inside your house. “It’s no use”. “You’re going to have to get down and come open the door” she commanded. By now, a few of the neighbours had stopped tending their hedges, and were watching with curious anticipation. I placed my feet on the floor below the window, and thankfully they provided support to the ‘jelly-like’ legs attached. I leaned across the threshold and unlatched the door. Edith squeezed her way through the door – as if not to disturb any evidence, scooped the poor, expired bird, into a plastic carrier bag, and again, disappeared.

Thankfully, there was only one bird and this murder scene did not resemble the Brenner home, laden with blackbirds, from the Alfred Hitchcock movie. I suppose, however, not unlike the shock of being encircled by a flock of birds, this later experience might very well compare: A friend was visiting on this particular evening, and it had been raining for a little more than an hour, when we heard the first squeak. You see, Charlie loved playing with frogs, and when it rained, there were plenty of squeaky toys for her to choose from. I opened the door from the kitchen to the lean-to, picked up two toads and returned them to the garden. I didn’t think to lock the cat-flap.

Engrossed in conversation, an hour or so had passed before I heard the next squeak. Amused by this game, my friend Tina accompanied me to the back room. I opened the door and was horrified to find, what must have been every toad in town, in my laundry room. They started hopping into the kitchen. As we became surrounded, by a ‘knot’ of toads (that is the term for a large group), my friend suddenly remembered, she had to be somewhere, and quickly disappeared.
I could not remove the toads faster than Charlie would bring them in. After the shock turned into frustration, I came up with a solution; put Charlie on the other side of the closed door while I undid the knot, lock the cat-flap, wash my hands, and pour another, very large, glass of wine. To this day, when I hear a toad I remember that night.

Speaking of entertaining guests, Charlie, turned out to be quite the hostess also. I had invited a close friend, to stay with us, while she did some travelling around Europe. One morning, after my husband and I had left for work, Melissa wandered downstairs, for breakfast. Thinking she was still half asleep, she rubbed her eyes and purveyed the lounge a second time. I guess Charlie had also decided to have guests over. There, on each bum space of furniture, was a cat. Shaking her head, Melissa carried on to the kitchen. “I felt as if I was crashing the party”, she later commented.

Many adventures later, my husband and I moved to Canada; where I’m from. It was something we had been discussing for a few years, and one of the factors of course, was Charlie. We talked about leaving her with my mother-in-law; Bernie adored Charlie, and the feeling was mutual. I knew that Charlie would be loved, and very well cared for however, I could not bring myself to leave her. This girl was an adventurer, and no scaredy cat. As quarantine was not required, we decided to bring Charlie with us.

The plane ticket for our thirteen pound feline cost more than one of our tickets. She was our baby girl and so, after researching the best transport options for her, we picked up her special travel crate and prepared for the big move.
I had been offered a job, and left the week before my husband, to attend training. The following week, Charlie was delivered to the airport prior to my husband’s departure; however, she would not leave until the next day. This was to guarantee, her guardian would be at the airport waiting to meet, and collect her. We were very pleased with the service and consideration given to animal companions. Charlie’s travel companion was a beautiful black Labrador Retriever; they arrived at the airport at the same time, and came through arrivals in Toronto together.

When they arrived at our fully furnished, rented accommodation, Charlie wandered around, and explored this new environment before settling comfortably beside her dad, on the sofa. Charlie took everything in stride; this was just one of those things.

Over the years, we moved five more times, and adopted more family members; Ollie and Maggie, both feline, and dogs; Henry and Reese. Charlie was ‘mama bear’ to all, and each of them showed her the respect she deserved.
In later years, Charlie slowed down, and her cream-filled tummy slimmed down. We modified her diet, from kibble to soft food, accommodating her loss of teeth and, now delicate jaw. A diagnosis, of ‘hyper-thyroidism,’ required medication to be administered at each meal. Charlie continued to take everything in stride. Even though, she wasn’t as active these days, Charlie still enjoyed basking in the sunshine, and the occasional swipe at her toys, or whichever of the dogs walked across her path.

Sadly, on the Victoria Day weekend, Charlie’s health declined rapidly. She stopped eating, her eyes became dull, and she was lethargic. We encouraged her to eat, to no avail and the water we syringed into her mouth, found its way back out. We did not want to see her suffer, and after consulting the veterinarian, we made the very difficult decision to help her on to her next journey.

Charlie had an adventurous life, and enjoyed every new experience during her eighteen years. Now, she rests peacefully among the English Lavender in the garden.

In England, her home country, it is believed that black cats are lucky. “Charlie, our beautiful, tuxedo kitty – we certainly feel lucky to have had you in our lives. In time, the grief turns into reflection; the ability to enjoy the wonderful memories you helped us create. Thank you”.

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Categories: HAPPY TALES & TRIBUTES Tagged: Beautiful, Charlie, Cuddles, Enjoy Life, Forever Home, Journey, Love, Play, Princess, Rescue, Whiskers

chocolate or vanilla?

August 7, 2013 | Leave a Comment

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Chocolate or vanilla?  That is the question of the day.

The day being our one year anniversary!

By way of celebrating ‘Tails are wagging,’ I baked three dozen cupcakes, another three dozen ‘mini cupcakes,’ and countless dozens of peanut butter, molasses dog treats (recipe compliments of ‘The Doggy Dessert Chef’) to share with friends and supporters.  As I mixed, poured, rolled and iced, the aphorism ‘you can’t have your cake and eat it too,’ came to mind.  The saying rolled around my mind, keeping time with my whisk as I contemplated its meaning.  I decided it did not apply to me, one lick.

Tails are wagging was born out of need: the need to release emotional upset, frustration, anger, and at times, the feeling of complete and utter helplessness.  I grew up on a soy-bean farm.  Our animals were our friends, and we treated them well.  After becoming a pet-owner as an adult, in the real world, I soon learned of the abuse, neglect and unimaginable conditions some animals endure.  I became an ambassador for the animals.  Any animal I learned of that needed someone to fight in their corner.  When you decide to take on that role, that challenge, you open yourself up to a plethora of evil, darkness and ugliness: puppy mills, dog-fighting, culling and hoarding to name a few.  As I look back through the posts, I notice a ‘transition’ within the writings.  Even though the subject matter/cause remains commensurable, the translation seems less angry, less hostile.

I credit the change of style to some of the most incredible individuals, organizations, and animals I have met along this journey: people, who fight battles on a daily basis, and remain hopeful and optimistic and animals, that experience unimaginable cruelty and hardships, yet learn to adapt, trust and enjoy life.

I have also learned, along the way, that more doors open when you leave judgment behind.  I admit, I carry a ‘Hobo’ style handbag some days, and stuff it away temporarily.  I also can’t promise that if I ever met a certain man named ‘Michael’, I wouldn’t use the bag full of judgment to swing!  People do not want to be judged and, under scrutiny, they become defensive.  Sometimes, we are able to make more of a difference by focusing less on the fact that ‘the thing’ has happened and how, or whose fault, and more on what can be done to prevent it from happening again, and make a difference to the situation: the opportunity, that has presented itself at this moment.  This doesn’t mean we won’t be upset, of course.

As I enter another year, I do so with a completely different mindset.  I’m excited about the opportunities that may present themselves and the chance to contribute to different causes.  I’m eager to meet even more like-minded individuals: via the internet, at pet shows, workshops, volunteering and at fundraising events.  I look forward to sharing information and ideas with other animal companions, and a willing, welcoming audience.  I hope to learn what I can from the personal experiences of these individuals, and specialists.  I realize I’m not part of a minority at all.  Vast numbers of individuals are working extremely hard, every single day to make positive changes for our animal companions.

This little dog blog has been instrumental in the establishment of many new relationships and opportunities for which I am extremely grateful.  I start each day with the intention of being open to new ideas that might be of interest to others.  Gathering information, to include in future posts, engages me in the most interesting conversations with some very interesting people.

Thank you for being a part of this journey.  When the goodies are all gone, I look around and see those that celebrate with me.  I feel I can have my cake and eat it too.  I wish I could hand-deliver cupcakes to you all.  If this were possible, I wonder: would you choose chocolate, or vanilla?

I would love to hear your favourite happy-ending, animal-companion story of hope, and/or goodwill.

Thank you,
S.M.& Co.

Categories: HAPPY TALES & TRIBUTES, OUR PACK Tagged: Cupcakes, Enjoy Life, Friends, Hope, Journey, Optimism, Peanut Butter, Support, Trust

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