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CARING FOR KATNISS

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A HOLIDAY FUNDRAISER

Not unlike her namesake, Katniss Everdeen, the main character in The Hunger Games, this pretty little feline and her sister were not born into a life of luxury. For the sake of this post, we’ll refer to Katniss’ sister as Primrose. Unlike the Everdeen girls, however, our feline sisters did not get along. Primrose became violent with Katniss each time our heroine approached the food, thinking she would eat all of what little food they had between them. Let The Hunger Games begin!

Holiday Portrait Fundraiser

The girls were surrendered to Finley Cat Rescue (link unavailable at this time). Primrose was adopted into a loving home and is doing very well. Let’s not feel bad for Katniss, though. During her time alone, Katniss has blossomed into a happy, loving, playful, and more confident cat (yay). I guess we all benefit from some alone time.   

Everything seemed to be going as well as any rescue can hope, and then, Katniss’s carer discovered a lump near one of the cat’s nipples. Because of Katniss’s newfound confidence, comfortably displaying her belly, her carer could easily monitor the mass. The lump disappeared only to return two months after her spay surgery.   

Initially, the vet suspected mammary cancer due to the location of the lump

Upon removing some fluid from the mass, the vet and rescue volunteer were shocked to find it contained milk. Even though Katniss hadn’t been pregnant and is spayed, her hormones caused her to lactate.

Photo provided by Finley Cat Rescue

Due to the unique situation, the vet reached out to a specialist vet at the OVC Health Sciences Centre. The specialist confirmed hormones were triggered before the spay and lactation occurred at the end of a pseudopregnancy.

To say the rescue was relieved Katniss did not have cancer is an understatement:

I had prepared myself for the worst-case scenario. If necessary, Katniss would stay with me in palliative care for as long as she wanted

Katniss was self nursing, encouraging her body to produce more milk, as though nursing kittens. It became a vicious cycle. The rescue organization reached out to other groups to find kittens in need of a nursing mother. There weren’t any.

Katniss was fitted with an e-collar to prevent her from nursing, but because the milk did not dry up, and she continued to lactate, the vet prescribed medication for her.

 

Katniss has learned to ‘sit’ for treats (see video).

The vet(s) and rescue organization expect that Katniss will make a full recovery and be ready for adoption in approximately one month. We will keep you posted on her journey.

I am not pretty. I am not beautiful. I am as radiant as the sun

― Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

In the meantime, to assist with medical costs, I am creating holiday-themed e-cards. These are digital files that I will make as close to your likeness(es) as possible. Of course, upon receipt, you can print a hard-copy of your portrait if you choose to.

I am donating 50% of proceeds from each portrait to Katniss’s medical expenses. Additional profits to cover cost of program and other digital requirements.

Prices start at $20 Cdn for (up to) two people and (up to) two pets.

Please email me for details and to request an application form at sadiemae.co@gmail.com

Family Portrait

 

Thank you for your support,

 

 

 

AT HOME GROOMING TIPS

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IN SUPPORT OF GEORGINA FERAL CAT COMMITTEE

Great news! It looks like groomers in Ontario have been allowed to open shop as early as next week!

Not so great news, our groomer has a waitlist of 300+ customers.

It looks like I’ll have to do at least one more (x 3) at home makeovers.  

How does this support rescue? Independent Scentsy consultant, Jennifer Carter rescued her cats, Trix, and Toby from Georgina Feral Cat Committee (GFCC). It is kitten season, and sadly, as is the case with most rescues, COVID-19 has prevented many fundraising opportunities. Jennifer is offering to donate 20% of the commission from party sales to GFCC. In addition, hostess gifts will be donated as auction items for future fundraising events.

Jennifer provided me with samples from Scentsy’s new Pet Line. Products include Pet Shampoo, Detangling Spray, and Deodorizing Spray and are available in the following gentle fragrances: 

  • Oatmeal & Aloe
  • Honey & Chamomile
  • Orange Zest & Nectar
  • Tea Tree & Peppermint

Check them out, and link to the party (click here)

Products ship within Canada and U.S.A.

I am a fan of this line and will add more to my Scentsy wish list.

Scentsy S’paw Package

Regular grooming is essential to pet health. Regardless of breed, nail trimming prevents discomfort and reduced traction. Too long nails may cause a slip and fall. Additionally, if nails curl back into the paw, the pads may be cut, or the nail could grow into the pad, and the paw could become infected. Split or torn nails can be very painful and, depending on severity, may need to be treated. Long term effects include splayed feet (to compensate), and injured tendons.

I admit I was terrified to clip my dogs’ nails and hope the following tips help you feel confidant.

TIPS FOR NAIL TRIMMING

Not all tools are created equally

  • unless you have a large dog, scissor-type clippers are recommended as they are less likely to put pressure on the nail and pinch the toe
  • ensure clippers are sharp; worn or dull clippers may also cause pressure and may split or pull the nail. NEVER use equipment that has become rusty as may cause infection as well as being extremely uncomfortable
  • hold paw firmly and project nail by using additional pressure with your thumb
  • clip a tiny bit at a time. If you make this a regular habit, a tiny bit is likely all you will need to do, at regular intervals

IF YOU CUT THE QUICK (nail bed)

use styptic powder to stop the bleeding. If you don’t have this on hand, tightly pack a small container with corn starch; this is equally effective

If you are only clipping a small amount of nail, these accidents are less likely to occur.

THE RIGHT BRUSH

This will depend on your dogs’ coat.

Bristle brushes are great for short-haired, smooth-coated dogs that frequently shed.

The FURminator® is also used for de-shedding. This toothed metal comb has a release button for collected fur, which collects quickly with our cat, Goose. It works on flat, short, combination, heavy and double coats; it can help reduce shedding up to 90%. NOT RECOMMENDED FOR NON-SHEDDING DOGS (like mine).

Slicker brushes works with all coat types. The rows of thin wire pins easily remove loose fur and help detangle the mats.

The Undercoat Rake is designed to get deep into double and heavy coats. Look for one with pins that roughly match your dog’s hair length. If pins are too short, they will miss the inner layer of undercoat; rakes that are too long might irritate the skin. 

There are many different types of tools; research what grooming products will work best for your companions.

TRIMMING HAIR

  • use non-pointed, round-ended scissors
  • hold your dog’s muzzle, comfortably yet firmly while trimming
  • clip away from eyes
  • never trim too close to sensitive areas

RUB-A-DUB-DUB

TIPS FOR THE TUB (or shower)

First of all, your dog’s breed will determine how often you choose to bathe your dog. For example, short-haired breeds require bathing less frequently as they can easily maintain their hygiene.  

Dogs with water-repellent coats need to preserve their natural oils. This is also the case with dogs that have skin sensitivities and allergies. In some cases, the oil reduces itching. My guy, Henry, is a sensitive boy.

Double-coated or thick-coated dogs may also need fewer baths. Instead, plenty of brushing will help remove loose hair and stimulate and distribute natural oils that keep your dog’s skin and coat healthy.

If your dog has come into contact with an unnatural grease or oil, apply shampoo directly to this area and massage into the hair, prior to wetting the dog. This is also the case with skunks – albeit a special shampoo will be recommended.

  • Make bathtime fun. My dogs know there is a treat waiting for them.
  • Reassure your pet during the process. Henry and I sing in the shower together (no, there will not be an audio clip)
  • Make sure the water is a comfortable temperature – Lukewarm
  • Use shampoo formulated for your pet as their PH is different from ours
  • Rinse, rinse, and then rinse. This is a very important point as shampoo left in their coat may irritate their skin. It feels gross, and your dog won’t be too happy having to go back for a rinse later
  • Towel-drying is good fun. After which, my dogs tear through the house, all squeaky clean. Henry and Rosie love having their locks blow-dried. I use the lowest heat and only for a brief floof. Otherwise, they air-dry as it is better for their skin

There are many different shampoos on the market. Again, do your research. I choose only the most natural products.

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Saving a few trips to the groomer each year could be part of ‘the new norm’ and save you money.

Those eyes!

Please feel free to share your tips with a comment below.

Stay safe,

 

 

 

DIY SNUFFLE MATS FOR DOGS

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IN 6.5 EASY STEPS

It’s hard to believe it’s the middle of April, and we’re still getting snow in Ontario! I guess we’ve had plenty of strange things going on lately. Not just in Ontario. My pack lives in the country, so we are already self-isolated. For those of you unable to easily walk your companion in built-up areas, or experiencing unpleasant weather, a snuffle mat will provide mental stimulation for your companion.

Brain Game

THE BENEFIT OF ALLOWING DOGS TO SNIFF

Sniffing is a natural practice for dogs. It’s an easy, mentally stimulating exercise that will help tire your companions, so they settle nicely. Of course, mental training is better when paired with physical movement. Some form of activity (mental or physical) is better than none.

HOW TO CREATE YOUR MAT:

heavy-weight mat

CHOOSE YOUR MAT

I purchased a heavyweight, non-sliding, anti-fatigue draining mat from TSC. This mat will stand up to pawing and pulling. Another option is a sink draining mat.

CUT TO SIZE

I am making these mats to sell in support of rescue efforts and have cut my mat into a variety of sizes. If the mat you selected is too large for your dog(s), you can always cut some away, or divide in half and donate to a rescue organization as an auction item, or gift to a pet-parent friend.

I made sizes small to extra-large and chose an extra-large mat for my ‘multi-dog’ crew.
I do not recommend these mats for multi-dog households where food-aggression is an issue.

CHOOSE YOUR FLEECE

The better the quality, the more durable and long-lasting your mat will be. Keep in mind; we’re making these mats for talented sniffer hounds that will put them through vigorous testing.

You can opt to use a single colour or pattern, or several bright and bold colours. I chose to mix coordinating fabrics for this collection of mats.

Variety of fleece fabric

BE SURE TO PRE WASH YOUR FLEECE BEFORE CUTTING AND TYING 

(this is the .5 step but extremely important)

Fleece is covered in tiny particles of fibres. These could be dangerous if inhaled or ingested. Prewashing the fleece removes these loose particles.

CUT YOUR FLEECE

Using scissors, or a rotary cutter and self-healing mat, cut the fleece approximately 6 inches x 1.5 inches (These don’t have to be exact; a little variety will give your mat more character and create different heights in which to hide the treasure treats)

TIE THE PIECES ON YOUR MAT

Have fun with this step. Create a pattern or tie pieces randomly. One tie (single knot) is enough to hold pieces firmly in place. You can flip the mat over to check for any gaps where you might have missed a tie.

Two-way tie vs. Three-way tie

Three-way tied mats require more fabric (more costly) and are more time-consuming. Simply add a tie on the angle (see second image below). The result is a fuller mat with less open gaps through the rug to the floor and more hiding places to hold treats.

It takes me approximately 3.5 hours to make an extra-large, three-way tied mat.  

Approximately four shows on Netflix

LOAD WITH TREATS AND ENJOY

I use small, non-crumbly training treats for my guys. If you feed your dog kibble, you could also use the mat as an alternative to their bowl. Switch things up a bit and make them work for it (I say work, but for dogs, it’s not a bad thing).

NB: Pet-parents should closely monitor playtime.

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CAROB DOG TREATS – TWO WAYS

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EASTER TREATS THAT ARE SAFE FOR DOGS

With three dogs in the house, that bunny keeps his distance, every year. The fact that everyone is ‘social-distancing’ makes no difference in that regard.

Easter Treats

Usually, Easter is a time for families to come together. Sadly, for most, that is not possible due to the COVID-19 virus. What is most important at this time is that we stay safe, keep each other safe, and reach out to loved ones to let them know we are thinking of them. In addition to the phone, there are different ways to stay connected; Facetime, Skype, email, and snail-mail I plan to sit quietly with a cup of tea and write little notes to send people to (hopefully) put a smile on their faces.    

I love to cook and bake. As my plans to host family members have changed, the dog’s luck has too!

Eager Bunny

#BAKINGFORDOGS

CAROB IS A SAFE ALTERNATIVE TO CHOCOLATE

Carob contains as much vitamin B1 as asparagus or strawberries; the same amount of niacin as lima beans, lentils, or peas; and more vitamin A than eggplant, asparagus, and beets. It’s also high in vitamin B2, calcium, magnesium, and iron, making these treats a not so guilty pleasure for your companions. 

Most people know that chocolate is toxic for dogs, especially cocoa, cooking chocolate, and dark chocolate, which contain the highest levels of theobromine. Milk chocolate and white chocolate contain the least amount. Due to the high level of theobromine found in the darker chocolates mentioned above, even a tiny amount could be fatal for dogs.

If you suspect your dog has ingested chocolate (milk, or dark), contact your vet or the PET POISON HELPLINE immediately.  

MONITOR INTERACTION OF CHILDREN (chocolate Easter Eggs), AND DOGS, AT ALL TIMES! 

I hope your dogs enjoy the following Easter treats.

Note: I use gluten-free oats and natural peanut butter. Please ensure your peanut butter does not contain Xylitol, a sweetener that is EXTREMELY TOXIC to dogs.

CAROB-DIPPED BUNNY TAILS AND NUTBARS

The base of this recipe is oat, apple, and peanut butter cookies (included). 

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CAROB ICED DOG TREATS

CAROB ICED DOG TREATS

Ingredients

  • Cookies:
  • 1 3/4 cup oat flour (add more until not sticky)
  • 1/3 cup unsweetened apple sauce
  • 1/4 cup natural peanut butter
  • To Decorate:
  • 1/2 cup carob chips
  • 1/4 cup unsweetened, shredded coconut
  • 1/4 cup unsalted peanuts, chopped into small pieces

Instructions

Preheat oven to 325F
Mix 1.5 cups of oat flour plus other two ingredients in a bowl using hands
Dust work area with remaining oat flour
Place dough on work area and roll to 1/4" thickness
Use preferred cookie cutter and cut out your biscuits (roll and cut as required)
Place on parchment paper in over for 20 to 30 minutes until hard and golden brown
Remove and let cool before decorating
Place topping ingredients in shallow bowls
Melt carob chips in microwave until they soften-remove and stir to melt remainder of chips
Working quickly: dip top of cookie-end in carob, and then press into one of the other toppings
Repeat process until all cookies complete
Enjoy!
https://herandherdogs.com/2020/04/10/carob-dog-treats-two-ways/

Ready to ice!

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Stay home, stay safe, and have a happy Easter,

 

 

 

ST. PATRICKS DAY FUN – GOODIES AND GARMENTS

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TAKE EVERY OPPORTUNITY TO CELEBRATE

On March 17th Irish and non-Irish, humans, cats, and dogs will celebrate Lá Fhéile Pádraig, “the Day of the Festival of Patrick,” or most commonly known as St. Patrick’s Day.  Although, this year, the public festivities may have been postponed or cancelled amid the coronavirus outbreak.

Mischievous Leprechaun

Saint Patrick, patron saint and national apostle of Ireland, is credited with bringing Christianity to Ireland. For some, March 17th is a religious celebration, marking the traditional death date of Saint Patrick.

Largely initiated by emigrants, this secular observance commemorates their heritage and culture.

The most elaborate celebrations include colourful parades in Boston and New York City and for almost fifty years, the Chicago River has been dyed green for the occasion.

ENVIRONMENTALLY FRIENDLY:

It is a waterway that has all sorts of really big issues that we focus on a lot more than vegetable dye going in on one day

–Josh Mogerman (Nat’l Resources Defense Council)

 

Although blue was the original colour associated with the celebration, Green has become the tradition:

Green beer, attire, shamrocks and clover, and glimpses of mischievous Leprechauns.

 

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BREATH-FRESHENING ICE CREAM TREATS

Prep Time: 25 minutes

BREATH-FRESHENING ICE CREAM TREATS

Ingredients

  • 650 g tub of coconut yogurt (approx 2 cups)
  • 1/2 c baby spinach
  • 1/2 c kale (shucked)
  • 1/2 c curly parsley (fresh)
  • 1/2 c coconut oil (I use liquid oil)

Instructions

Blend ingredients until desired consistency reached. Pour into desired molds and freeze.
Use less greens for a lighter colour.

Notes

Total time varies. Prep time + freezing (depends on size of mold used).

https://herandherdogs.com/2020/03/13/st-patricks-day-fun-goodies-and-garments/

 

IRISH DOG BREEDS:

  1. Glen of Imaal Terrier
  2. Irish Red and White Setter
  3. Irish Setter
  4. Irish Terrier
  5. Irish Water Spaniel
  6. Irish Wolfhound
  7. Kerry Beagle
  8. Kerry Blue Terrier
  9. Soft-coated Wheaten Terrier

Bred more than two hundred years ago, these hardy, working dogs also made the best companions. Click each breed to learn more. For example, did you know some tails were docked for the purpose of saving tax?

For the sake of this occasion, we’ll say these are green Glens!

GARMENTS (Bandanas)

NO MATTER HOW, OR IF YOU PLAN TO CELEBRATE:

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

-Irish Blessing

 

 

 

 

 

INTRODUCING ROSIE

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WE NEEDED HER AS MUCH AS SHE NEEDED US

It’s hard to believe it’s been a year since we lost our beautiful Reese. Her absence was overwhelming for all of us.

I adore my boys, and was certainly grateful to have them to come home to, and shower with requited love and affection.  Less than a month after losing Reese, I met the most fantastic mama for my foster cat, Isabella.  Yay! Of course, I was happy Isa would finally, after more than a year, have her forever home.  I would miss her terribly, though.  I was her foster mom, and she had bonded with me. On those evenings, when I would sit on the sofa and cry over Reese, Isa would come and sit with me.  What would I do without my girls?

I just could not!

Almost six months later, my husband and I were ready to consider rescuing another dog in need.  The dynamics had shifted considerably, and I so desperately wanted another little girl.

I had forgotten how emotionally draining the process of reviewing adoption profiles could be.  Every day, more heartbreaking stories of how humans have let down these beautiful beings. Stories of neglect, abuse, irresponsible breeders/millers, or people that just couldn’t be bothered with all that is necessary to own a pet.  This, in addition to the heartbreak of losing Reese was almost too much to bear.

I WANTED TO RESCUE THEM ALL!

…and then there was you.

The meet and greet went very well. Initially, I met Rosie and her foster mom before returning to our vehicle to assist my husband with the boys. Rosie ran to the door to welcome Henry. They were face to face, both tails wagging ecstatically.  Jack joined the party, and everyone seemed happy.

This cute bundle of fiery red curls was a ball of energy; the boys could barely keep up with her playfulness.  I was hopeful that Henry would become more energetic around Rosie and that she and Jack would play together.

I cuddled Rosie on my lap during our ride home. She curled right into my arm and remained there for the duration. When we arrived at the house, she excitedly explored the house, escorted by her new brothers. It seemed as if the boys were giving her a tour of her new home and welcoming her.

Initially, Rosie was my ‘Velcro’ dog. She would follow me EVERYWHERE. She still wants to know where I am at all times; however, she has become more independent and will occasionally charge up the stairs to join Jack on our family bed. Rosie looks at me momentarily before doing so, as if to say ‘I’ll be upstairs if you need to find me for a cuddle.’  Sometimes, she even goes to bed on her own.  It’s wonderful to see rescue dogs, from horrific backgrounds, find their confidence and flourish into trusting self-assured beings.

We did, for obvious reasons, consider a name change. Rosie, however, responded to her name, and clearly, it does suit her.

Although the names are similar, and yes, I have called Rosie, Reese, many times, Rosie is very different from Reese (repeat that sentence five times, fast).

Background:

Rosie was rescued from a Korean meat farm/puppy mill. Although blind in her right eye, believed to be the result of trauma, Rosie is mostly confident and moves full speed ahead. Often-times bumping into things or tripping over things along the way. Her impairment gives her no reason for pause. Nor does the fact that Rosie needed to have several teeth removed due to neglect, mean she can’t enjoy treats. Boy, does she enjoy treats!

The names, being bred for stock, missing teeth, and love of treats and toys are the end of the similarities between my girls. If I were to compare Reese’s demure, classy manner to Audrey Hepburn, I would have to call Rosie, our Lucille Ball.  Fiery, energetic, and not at all graceful. Rosie has us in fits of laughter with her comedic timing.  For example, just as I moved a throw cushion, Rosie jumped onto the sofa, and sort-of bounced off that cushion. She landed on her feet, gave herself a little shake, and jumped right back up.

If Rosie is resting comfortably, and something catches her attention, her head pops up, and she is on full alert (for about two seconds). Upon realizing there is no threat, she drops her head, as if weighted, right back to the exact positioning. Imagine pressing fast-forward and rewind (head up, head down, head up, head down).

And that smile! The fact that she’s missing several teeth gives her the most adorable, crooked grin.

It feels good to laugh again. My heart, though still tender, is once again full

As well as making my husband and I laugh, Rosie has helped Jack become more courageous. Perhaps also more mischievous. Henry loves them both – even though he pretends to be in a constant state of annoyance with them.

Double Trouble

Rosie prefers women. This note, as well as ‘does not like men’ (full stop), is quite commonly listed on rescue pet profiles. Especially, those of mill dogs. It breaks my heart to imagine the neglect and abuse suffered at the hands of the millers.

My husband seems to be the exception. Every fearful and neglected case we have brought home: permanently, or to foster, have slowly warmed to, and end up loving him.

Patience pays off. That is especially true in the world of rescue and the process of rehabilitation.

After several months, Miss Rosie is showing a fondness for daddy, and I know he is secretly delighted.  Up until now, he would use terms such as ‘your dog’ and ‘mommy’s suck.’  My husband patiently waited for her to realize how wonderful he is and refers to his ‘baby girl’ with much affection (and several nicknames).

One year later, after what seems like no time, I am happy to return to writing. I look forward to sharing with you any new findings and stories to which fellow pet-parents may: relate, find fun, useful, and hopefully, a few that will warm your hearts.

Stay tuned for more about our cheeky little redhead, Rosie.

 

 

 

 

 

 

SOI DOG, CANADA

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MUTT MARCH – A HUGE SUCCESS IN TWO PROVINCES

In our previous post, we introduced you to SOI DOG FOUNDATION, an incredible organization dedicated to caring for the street dogs and cats of Thailand, and persistently advocating for much-needed change to animal welfare legislation.

Soi Dog, Indy

On June second, the Vancouver chapter of Soi Dog, Canada, held their very first Mutt March fundraiser, followed by the Ontario march, in Erindale Park, Mississauga.  I am happy to report both events were hugely successful. The funds raised from Ontario’s walk nearing ten-thousand dollars!  This money will help with the spay/neuter program at Soi Dog in Thailand, and a portion of the funds will assist the following initiatives:

Close to eighty participants pre-registered for Ontario’s first-ever Mutt March, with more people registering on the day. Over one hundred people turned up to support Soi Dog; including, many Soi Dog rescues, and two partner rescues!

Proud Participant

Even the weather cooperated; the sun shone the whole day. One of the event organizers, and Soi Dog volunteer, Sondra, agrees:

In all, we feel that for a first-time, it was a success. We hope people enjoyed themselves

Weather appropriate attire

Fun contests followed the walk, included:

  • Best dressed dog
  • Dog & owner look most alike
  • Waggiest Tail
  • Best Trick

Lookalikes

Best Trick

Waggiest Tail

Sponsors for the event included:

  • Green Shift
  • Canisource Gran Cru
  • Zyderma
  • Pet Love4Charity
  • Smith Werks
  • RC Pets
  • Island Veterinary Hospital
  • Bonnie & Clyde Premium Pet Food
  • Walks and Wags Pet First Aid
  • Earth Rated
  • Bosley’s, New Westminster
  • Tractive
  • The Kindergarten Class of Pineview Public School

these little kids raised almost five-hundred dollars, through their own initiative!

Sondra strongly agrees children will set the best example, and lead the rest of us to a more humane future for our animal companions. We need to educate young people first.

Vendors and exhibitors included:

  • Pet Love 4 Charity
  • The Bowtail
  • Ren’s Pets
  • Mobile Canine Care
  • Barker and Snouts (doggie ice cream)
  • Pets in Motion Chiropractic
  • Party Painterz (face painters)

I scream, you scream…

Pet Love 4 Charity

Adds Sondra,

We are grateful to the City of Mississauga, our vendors, and exhibitors, Cindy Cherry our MC, and, of course, we appreciate the support, and efforts of our volunteers. Much appreciation to everyone who came out and participated, helping to make the day a success. A special thanks to my team lead, Bev Cartright; an outstanding volunteer, in so many ways

I had the privilege of speaking with several attendees, all of whom agreed it was a day of fun for people and pups!

Pooped Pups

Once again, I am grateful to share the incredible work done by this organization.

Thank you, Soi Dog team,

 

 

 

 

Soi Dog Canada is a not for profit corporation run entirely by volunteers.

SOI DOG FOUNDATION

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HELPING STREET DOGS AND CATS WHO HAVE NO-ONE ELSE TO CARE FOR THEM

For some, the ideal retirement would include daily walks along the beach, on a tropical island. John and Gill Dalley envisioned this dream.  The couple wed on the island of Phuket, Thailand in 1996 and returned to the paradise many times before retiring there in 2003.  Having enjoyed successful careers in their homeland of England, they decided they wanted to give back to society; in particular, the local community in the place in which they created many happy memories.  Without wasting any time, the Dalleys set about finding a humane way to address the stray dog and cat problem on the island, which was, in fact, an issue throughout all of Thailand.

On previous trips to Phuket, the Dalleys were shocked, not just by the vast number of street dogs and cats (estimated at 70,000 at the time), but also by the horrific health conditions. John and Gill learned of another expatriate, Margot Homburg who had been taking dogs in her neighbourhood in Bangkok to be spayed and neutered by a local vet. To fund her efforts, Margot had set up a charity called Soi Dog Foundation.

Soi, meaning “street” in Thailand, is the perfect name for an organization committed to saving and improving the lives of the country’s street animals

The three joined forces and continued the process of mass sterilisation in order to first reduce the number of animals being born on the streets into a life of misery and suffering. Initially, they set up sterilisation clinics throughout the island. John, Gill, and Margot assumed the roles of dog catchers and vet nurses; spay and neuter procedures were carried out by volunteer vets, and occasionally nurses, from overseas. An Australian vet had established a small scale program, focusing her efforts on the many stray dogs taken in by monks. When she moved to Hong Kong, she gave her equipment to Soi Dog Foundation.

The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated – Mahatma Gandhi

Two local vets offered to perform spay/neuter procedures at cost price. Although still small-scale, the program was proving to be highly effective. John and Gill’s vision of providing a humane and sustainable solution to managing the stray population and address their medical needs had become a reality.

The following year, their patience and dedication were tested. After running into a flooded buffalo field to rescue a tranquilized dog, Gill contracted a rare form of septicemia. She was airlifted to Bangkok and remained in a coma for several weeks. Given a slim chance of survival, Doctors advised that if she did survive, she would likely lose her arms and legs. Gill’s fighting spirit saw her through, and although she did lose both lower legs, she survived and was able to use her arms. Only three weeks after having her legs amputated, Gill was determined to enjoy Christmas at home, and discharged herself from the hospital, returning to Phuket on December 22nd, 2004.  Four days later, On December 26th, the devastating Indian Ocean tsunami struck, taking the lives of thousands – including Gill’s closest friend, and a dedicated Soi Dog Foundation volunteer, Leone Cosens.

After much loss, came hope. In 2005, after spending the first few days after the tsunami assisting with the human crisis, Soi Dog Foundation; including, Gill, initially in her wheelchair, began the colossal task of feeding and treating abandoned dogs. Thousands of dogs whose homes and food sources had also been washed away. One positive thing that came out of such devastation is that Soi Dog was now on the map. For months following the tsunami, the foundation was overwhelmed with offers of help from vets and other volunteers, enabling them to run multiple clinics.

Following the disaster, WSPA (World Society for the Protection of Animals), had been very successful with fundraising efforts and were looking for partners. They provided Soi Dog Foundation with a two-year grant. The foundation was now able to employ full-time vets and dog catchers.

Dog Catchers

Later in the year, Soi Dog became the first of its kind to be granted foundation status in Thailand, and a principally Thai board was established.

Experiencing ill health in 2006, Margot left the Dalleys to lead the foundation on an incredible journey of expansion during the next ten years, driven by their continued commitment to alleviate the suffering of Thailand’s street dogs and cats.

2011 – Thousands of dogs rescued and dozens of arrests made as a result of Soi Dog’s campaign to end illegal export of an estimated 500,000 dogs per year to Vietnam for use as dog meat.

2013 – Funding to build and finance a huge complex of shelters, as well as provide food and medication.

2014 – Thailand introduced its first animal welfare law. Soi Dog Foundation sat on the committee that drafted the law. The Prevention of Animal Cruelty and Provision of Animal Welfare Act makes it illegal to eat dog and cat meat.

2017 – Sadly, after a short battle with cancer, Gill passed away. She devoted the last four years of her life to designing and overseeing the construction of a new, state-of-the-art dog hospital, dedicated entirely to the treatment of street dogs.  The is the largest and most comprehensive hospital in Asia, and possibly the world.

The hospital is the fulfillment of Gill’s promise to provide the best possible treatment for the street dogs she loved

John and Gill’s vision is shared internationally. As others learned of their cause, and the difference the foundation is making to the animals, alliances were formed.  As well as International Partner Rescue Programs, SOI DOG has become a legally registered charity in other countries: Australia, France, the Netherlands, the UK, the United States, and has a growing presence on two Canadian coasts.

The organization’s continued success is apparent;

Soi Dog Foundation performed 80,000 spay/neuter surgeries in 2018 – an increase of 51% from the previous year, bringing the total to more than 300,000 procedures overall

Tourists are embracing the opportunity to experience John and Gill’s dream paradise. Travel to the foundation to walk dogs has become part of a destination vacation – guests rave about their FIVE STAR EXPERIENCE on Tripadvisor.

Before researching this incredible organization, I, like many, believed their efforts were focused on putting an end to the dog-meat trade. SOI DOG efforts include:

CNVR – controlling overpopulation and eliminating disease by Capture/Neuter/Vaccinate/Release.

MEDICAL TREATMENT – high-quality veterinary care to strays.

SHELTER – provided to victims of cruelty and abuse, disabled animals, abandoned puppies, and others who are unable to survive on the streets.

ADOPTION – Finding permanent homes in Thailand, and overseas for animals in the shelter.

Click here to read about Soi Dog success, and loving adoptions.

FIGHTING THE ASIAN DOG MEAT TRADE – Dismantling the organised meat trade across the borders and putting an end to eating cats and dogs in Asia.

DISASTER RESPONSE – Initiating fast and effective action to save dogs and cats after natural or man-made disasters.

ERADICATING PUPPY FARMS – Encouraging people to adopt rescue dogs and not buy puppies from pet stores.

ANIMAL WELFARE LAWS – Soi Dog Foundation was instrumental in the introduction of Thailand’s first animal welfare law and sits on committees designed to improve it. Also, the organization campaigns to ensure the law is enforced and the sentences applied (by courts) for cruelty to animals are as severe as the new law allows

EDUCATION AND TRAINING – An emphasis is being put on educating children; both local, and abroad, to change the attitude of future generations, to the welfare of animals.

Soi Dog Canada, a non-for-profit group of volunteers, support the organization through independent fundraising, education, partner rescues, foster, and adoptions.

Mutt March

DON’T MISS SOI DOG MUTT MARCH

 

If you live near Richmond, BC, be sure to sign up for Mutt March

taking place this Sunday, June 2nd, in Garry Point Park.

Join us Sunday, June 9th, in Erindale Park, Mississauga, ON for Mutt March,

a day of fun for the whole family.

 

Thank you,

 

 

 


photos courtesy of Soi Dog Foundation

SHADES OF HOPE WILDLIFE SANCTUARY

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TREATING AND RELEASING HEALTHY ANIMALS BACK INTO THEIR NATURAL HABITATS

Shades of Hope, is a registered charity dedicated to treating, nurturing, and rehabilitating injured and orphaned native wildlife, Including, a large number of wild birds, mammals & reptiles.

Porcupines are cute!

Located in Georgina, Ontario, Canada, Shades of Hope serves the Greater Toronto Area (GTA), and surrounding areas throughout the South Central Ontario corridor.

Sadly, commercial and residential growth continues to explode, taking over the habit that was formerly occupied by our wildlife. The lack of suitable habitat mean animals have less space, and food sources, and are more likely to become victims of road accidents, and human cruelty

As the need for rescue of these orphaned and injured animals increases, Shades of Hope is committed to providing veterinary care, proper nourishment and a safe place for them to flourish until they are ready to return to their rightful place in nature.

In the event of a wildlife crisis, Shades of Hope will do their best to help. When unable to assist directly, the organization will, where possible, help you find an alternative resource.

My first experience with Shades Of Hope was the day a Finch flew head first into my kitchen window. I ran to the garden and found the little bird more than dazed; I was not hopeful.  I contacted Animal Control, and by the time I had made a warm bed in a shoebox for the bird, an officer had arrived to collect him.  I asked what would happen to the little bird and the officer informed me she would take the bird to Shades Of Hope for treatment.  Since I volunteer at the shelter, I was able to follow up and learned my little friend had made a full recovery. Now that I have seen, firsthand, this incredible facility and equipment, as well as the care given to each patient, I am not at all surprised.

ALL LIVES MATTER

Click here for tips, from the refuge, about how to deter such accidents from occurring.

The facility is not open to the public; I am grateful for the opportunity to visit Shades Of Hope and share my experience with others.

I was welcomed, by founder, and manager Gail, and we proceeded with the tour. Immediately, I was impressed by how incredibly well-organized the facility is; thus, enabling the highest level of efficiency. As emergency cases are constant, everything needs to run smoothly.

The bird corner is comprised mainly of shelves containing rows and rows of makeshift homes for baby birds and will be full this time of year (spring). The baby birds require feeding every fifteen minutes, and feeding stations are set up along the walls to accommodate this full-time job. The birds are housed in cloth cages, so they don’t harm their feathers.

Also in this area are incubators for patients with head injuries, providing them with oxygen, and keeping their body temperature stable. An example given is of a little sparrow who hit a window. The facility sees a large number of collision cases. Road accidents and frostbite are other reasons patients end up at the refuge for treatment.

The bunny room is a quiet area, chosen with these easily stressed beings in mind. Nearby, are neatly arranged shelves of food and milk. The bunny milk is shipped from Australia. There is no other manufacturer of bunny milk in the world. It all comes from Australia. Although they have tried creating blends of their own and using different products, they have found this formula, made specifically for bunnies, gives them the best result. Doing so helps their success rate with bunnies.

Patients are separated into ‘Adult’ and ‘Baby’ buildings.

Adult animals are easily stressed; the babies don’t know to be afraid of us, yet

The team limits their interaction with wildlife, doing so only as much as required to medicate and monitor them.

There is also a Meal-worm Farm, which, provides nourishment for the thirty bats Gail is currently feeding.

At this time, there are twenty-nine Opossums at SOH; they’re everywhere, Gail points out. As they’re nocturnal, most were sleeping during my tour. I kept my voice to a little more than a whisper so as not to disturb these guests.

Enclosures decorated to mimic natural habitats

Five-star service at the facility means each guest’s room is cleaned every morning. Some even have a second clean at the end of the day.

Room Service with a smile!

There is also a feeding area for baby squirrels. This process runs like clockwork; one baby is fed and moved to the ‘done’ section until all have been fed and are returned to their original accommodations.

Twelve interns work shifts during the spring, sitting at the feeding stations to accommodate the demand.

The remainder of the team is made up of three full-time employees, and many volunteers; mostly students hoping to work in fields such as zoology, conservation, animal sciences, or pre-vet. Some students travel from other parts of the world for the opportunity to work and learn from their experience at the refuge.

Shades Of Hope is the first wildlife centre with an accredited surgical centre for wildlife. After passing all qualifications to gain certification, SOH is recognized by The College of Veterinarians of Ontario. Veterinarians come to the sanctuary twice a week to perform surgeries. Having a Vet Technician on the team, SOH is able to perform many medical procedures, themselves. The centre includes an x-ray station and a lab (for blood and fecal tests), an isolation space, and the surgical area. The team worked late into the night, last night, on an injured opossum that travelled from Waterloo, Ontario.

As we walk past the pigeon wall, I notice an interesting machine:

Gail proudly explains the device is a ‘large animal incubator,’ fashioned out of a freezer. The team has used the incubator, successfully, to treat larger animals such as deer, a swan, and foxes. This type of machine would have cost eight to ten-thousand dollars. This Money can be used elsewhere.

DIY Incubator

The medication distribution area is a hub of activity first thing in the morning, and again in the evening. Those are our busy times, explains Gail. Patient files and a white board keeps records methodized and the process streamlined.

Food prep and laundry areas are also uncluttered, and orderly.

I meet resident Wood duck, Woody at the ‘indoor pond;’ a little pool enclosed in a horse-type stall where he is visiting the ducks and geese.

Indoor Pond

When he sees us, he comes out to join in the conversation; he’s a chatty fellow.

Woody, the resident Wood duck

A beautiful Barred Owl is recovering, nearby, from having his wing caught-up in fishing line. He was found hanging from a hydro wire. X-rays did not show any fractures; however, there may be some ligament damage. Time will tell. For now, he’s on antibiotics, and the pain and swelling is being managed.

Barred Owl

In the backyard, an intermediate area serves as an adjustment area, before the birds are transferred to larger pens. Aviaries provide shelter to the songbirds; some are winterized to house a large number of opossums.

This area is usually quite a noisy corner with all the screaming and chirping

One guest, a bluejay, is in residence until his tail grows back. Something got a hold of him, and although he managed to get away, he lost his tail.

A winterized section of accommodation

Nearby is a one-hundred-foot-long covered building, this is the ‘flight testing’ centre. When staff feels a bird has recovered from their injuries, they are brought to this centre to see if they can fly. When the birds aren’t using it, the donkeys do. Gail laughs: but not to fly!

Test Flight Centre

The premises also has a quarantine building, a chicken coop, equipped with heat lamp, and a storage shed for various feed suplies.

A winterized facility has been created for baby squirrels born late last year. They were too young to be released before spring.

I’m shown where, on the grounds, there will be four, fully-caged outdoor water-fowl enclosures, comprised of multiple ponds. This new addition will house the more than one-hundred and fifty baby ducklings raised by Shades Of Hope, each year. They’ll now be outside, instead of inside.

When I suggest that Shades of Hope is more like a resort than a treatment facility, Gail responds:

We owe them the best we can give them

Since opening in 2013, the organization has helped more than fifteen thousand wild lives. Click  to view species cared for. Learn how you can help this incredible charitable organization save more wild lives.

Founder/Board Member Gail Lenters

Thank you, Gail, and SOH Team for inviting me to visit your beautiful facility, and for allowing me to share information about Shades of Hope, and the animals you help,

 

 

 

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KIT KAT AND THE CHOCOLATE KITTENS

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IN LOVING MEMORY OF HERSHEY

Georgina Feral Cat Committee are known, mostly, for the work they do with feral cats: trapping, spay/neuter, treat illnesses and injuries, foster, rehabilitate, and rehome kittens, and feed and monitor entire colonies. Although this is their primary focus, the committee also looks out for abandoned, neglected, and often-times abused, street cats.

Kit Kat is one of those cases, and a tail of how the community came together to ensure the safety, and wellbeing of their cats.


When the head of our local Military Museum received a call from someone stating they had seen six kittens running around the property, he and his wife drove there immediately. The couple found five of the kittens. One of their volunteers is also a volunteer with GFCC, so, the couple reached out to her for advice and assistance.

Georgina Feral Cat Committee found a foster parent, who went and collected the kittens. No one knows who made the initial call, but tips like this from the community are much appreciated.

The kittens were too young to be on their own, so members of the committee suspected the “sixth kitten” was, in fact, the mom. Founder Eva states:
I went over the next evening and saw a cat run off. We had volunteers going to feed. I went back the following evening and baited the trap. We sat in the car waiting, and before too long we trapped a cat. We didn’t know anything about here, but since she was a grey tabby, the same as the kittens, I suspected she was the mom. I took her over to the foster’s home, and we soon determined that she was not feral and was indeed the mom.

A couple of days later, Eva received a call from the local animal shelter. Someone had found the actual sixth kitten at the military museum.

They knew we had the rest of the family and asked if we wanted this kitten too. Of course, we did. We were able to reunite the little family.

The kittens were nicknamed ‘The Chocolate Kittens,’ and all received chocolate bar names.

Sadly, Hershey recently became ill. He was taken to the vet and given medication. His foster mom believed he was not improving; in fact, he was getting worse, so he went back to the vet that afternoon. Eva was in the vicinity of the clinic when the vet called, so she stopped by the office.

Little Hershey was looking good – running around exploring the exam room

The vet gave Hershey new meds, but he was not acting ill. Foster mom even reported that he was nursing from his mom and seemed to be doing okay. The next morning, she was heartbroken to discover that he passed.

The reality of the situation is that there would likely have been more tragedy for this little family if the community had not been there for them. The loss of Hershey is sad; it is upsetting to lose one of these precious beings. The work done by Georgina Feral Cat Committee makes a positive difference for many more.

 

Thank you to the committee for your dedication to the cats within our community,

 

 

 

 

 

 

COVETED CANINES RESCUE

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FROM DISCARDED TO DESIRED

 

Coveted Canines, based in Toronto, Ontario, is a not for profit rescue organization that focuses on dogs that are at high risk of being euthanized, and those that are vulnerable to abuse.

The organization, run entirely by volunteers, believes there is a home for all the dogs they bring into rescue, and they pride themselves on matching their dogs with the right people.

Instead of placing dogs in a shelter, they are fostered in homes where they are made to feel safe, begin to trust people and learn critical socialization skills. Once comfortable in a home environment, the dogs flourish, and their personalities and quirks observed and shared with potential forever families.

COVETED CANINES FIND THE PERFECT, FOREVER HOME FOR EACH DOG IN THEIR CARE

How do they ensure the perfect match?

Spending quality time with the dogs, in their foster homes, allows foster parents to get to know the dogs, and that experience helps them create honest, and detailed profiles about each dog.

Carly Werle, one of the organizations three founders, states:

Full disclosure MUST be given to potential adopters

No one benefits unless there is complete transparency. The volunteers are busy, and the dogs have been through enough negative experiences, without being set up for another failure.

Cooper is an example of an adoptable dog, who, without an honest profile, may find himself right back in the shelter system through no fault of his own.

Photo taken from profile

COOPER

Italian Greyhound & Chi Mix | 4 years approximate age (likely younger)

Male | 7 lbs
#emptyontarioshelters
Temperament: Happy, playful, fun!
Activity: High – moderate.

As well as pointing out all of his wonderful, positive attributes, Cooper’s profile outlines points that may be of concern to potential adopters: He is good with other, small dogs, and, although he walks well on a leash, he can be reactive while on leash.  He has a high prey drive, so, likely not good with cats.

That said, Cooper is very good with the sanctuary cockatoos that freely walk around. He is vocal – condo or apartment living is not appropriate for Cooper.

COOPER’S BIO MAY CHANGE AS WE GET TO KNOW HIM BETTER.

Another little sassy/napoleon syndrome/spoiled rotten Chi mix in need of rescue! For all of you small dog lovers out there he is what you call DELICIOUS. Itsy bitsy, longgggg legs, compact little bod….are you Chi lovers swooning yet? Or at least drooling?

Although Cooper is not great with guys initially, has leash reactivity and is not great with all large dogs…it turns out he’s a little socialite with most humans and small dogs (and even some large dogs). With guys, he needs some adjustment time but after he feels safe really does prefer men (and loves woman too!). He enjoys cuddles and scratches like all day long if you have the time to adorn him with that much time and affection. While he can sometimes be an angry little man to some new people, he is MP (Mister Perfection) with everyone else. He will definitely need an EO (Experienced Owner) and an older child home.

He is potty trained, walks well on a leash (minus the leash reactivity), is crate trained, very food motivated and is loving his time at the sanctuary where he gets to socialize with doggies 24/7. You won’t find a more loving or cuddly dog anywhere!

If this little man with big man syndrome is what you are looking for, please click here to fill out an application online.

All too often, the relevant information is left out of profiles, and adopters find themselves paying additional veterinary expenses, or dealing with undisclosed behavioral issues. The profile must also be respected by potential adopters. Some rescues will charge a rescue fee of $700 for a dog, and the adopters later discover surgery or medications will be required.

In addition to providing a thorough, and honest profile, applications are reviewed thoroughly, references contacted, and vet checks and home visits completed. Depending on the location, the organization may reach out to another, trusted rescue for assistance with home visits. Carly feels that home visits are the most crucial part of the process; they reveal so much more than what is written on the application. If a profile states ‘Prefers a home without children, ‘ it’s probably not the best idea for doting grandparents, or potential parents to apply to adopt the dog.

During one home visit, we determined a couple who had applied for one such dog, were, in fact, hoping to start a family

Coveted Canines do adopt out of the GTA; however, potential adopters must drive to the dog’s foster home to meet them, and then again to pick them up once they are approved. It’s a great way to screen people to see their level of commitment. The Coveted Canines team is equally devoted to the process and have crossed the border to do a home visit in the U.S.

Carly believes rescue organizations need to create a village.

We need to build a community of like-minded individuals and educate each other by sharing our experiences and resources

Carly is referring to a community that includes: rescue organizers, foster parents, adoptive families, potential adopters, fellow educators; including, veterinarians, and not excluding members of the public that share a passion for dogs, and want to learn and help find loving homes for the dogs. A rescue organization should provide support to adoptive families, during and after the adoption process.  This community may also include potential surrenders:

Educating people about the welfare of animals, and providing support through what is often a difficult decision, may mean the difference between people choosing to surrender to rescues, versus having them euthanized, posting them on Kijiji, or selling them to testing facilities, and fight rings.

Coveted Canines is a team of more than one-hundred volunteers, including thirteen managers: vet manager, adoption manager, etc. Most members are in Toronto; however, some are located in Brock Township, home of Coveted Canines ‘sister’ organization, Coveted Kennels, and Sanctuary.

The Sanctuary is home to forever fosters, and, for some, a retirement home.  Rescued farm animals also reside here. Past and present residents include chickens, roosters, parrots, peacocks, a donkey, horses, a pig, several goats, other small domestics, and a feral cat.

We found a job for some dogs as ‘livestock protectors,’ and, adopted ducks, goats, and a bunny, to a vegetarian farming couple

The Sanctuary is also a holiday home for boarders.  The money from boarding services not only helps to pay for vetting of rescue dogs but also helps to pay to rescue and vet additional animals and pay for their care.

Offered at the Sanctuary:

  • All day play and hiking
  • Cuddles in a loving, home-based environment
  • Cage free boarding/daycare experience on 30 acres (crating available upon request by owner)
  • Approximately one hour outside of Toronto GTA
  • Open year round
  • Drop off/pick up locations in Toronto and safe shuttle service to and from the sanctuary
  • Experienced staff
  • Giving back. Our clients support a business that saves abused, neglected and displaced animals.

Photo by Tara McGrath

If permitted by owners, boarding guest dogs are permitted on the furniture and are welcome to sleep on the bed with Carly. Known as the fairy dog-mother, Carly says,

I’m a marshmallow! I once had twelve dogs in bed with me!

The sanctuary is also a place to care for dogs with behavioral issues or those that prove more of a challenge to adopt. For example; Cooper, the Chihuahua mentioned above mix, who is leash reactive and barks. He would not do well in a condo or townhome.

Photo by Tara McGrath

Coveted Canines and sister organization – Sanctuary, are looking for rural fosters to help rehabilitate and provide the space necessary for large, and high-energy dogs. Please contact the organization if you are interested in giving space for these dogs.

 

Thank you, Carly and the Coveted Team for all the wonderful work you do for the animals!

 

 

 

Unless otherwise stated, photos are courtesy of Coveted Canines

 

 

THE IMPORTANCE OF GRIEVING THE LOSS OF A PET

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…AND THE MISTAKES I MADE DURING THIS TIME

It’s been just over a month since we said goodbye to Reese, and yet, it seems like only a few days.

Miss you, Reese

The boys (Henry, Jack, and Ricky) seem mostly content, again, and John (hubby) and I are becoming familiar with our new, two-dog routine. I no longer grab three treats at a time, and I don’t dream about Reese every night. Reading posts from other people about their losses, and recent news about puppy mills, and other pet-related tragedies, upsets me more than usual, and the floodgates open. Otherwise, teary outbursts are becoming less frequent.

I am INCREDIBLY grateful for a supportive network comprised of family, friends, and the pet-blogging community. Each of the cards and messages you sent were like hugs. Thank you.

I also received links to podcasts, articles, and books about grieving the loss of a pet.

Reese was almost twelve-years-old, with a grade four heart murmur. Although I knew she would not live forever, I was unprepared for the loss. We left the house one morning to go to the vet, for perhaps, some medication, and she did not come home with me. Animals are intuitive, and although the rest of my pack were aware of the loss, I didn’t give much thought to the consequences my subsequent actions would have on them.

I am an emotional cleaner. After barely sleeping the first night, I got out of bed and sprang into action. I cleaned all the bedding, ours and the dogs, caught up on the rest of the laundry, vacuumed, scrubbed, mopped, and polished the house, from top to bottom. I wasn’t trying to remove all traces of Reese; it is just how I deal with stress. I wish I had left her scent on the beds, for the boys to draw comfort from, a while longer.

Her scent lingers

My biggest mistake, however, was not taking time for myself. I could not catch my breath. National Cupcake Day, coined by the SPCA, is an event to raise money for rescues. This event had been on my calendar for months, and, I did not want to cancel it. I was determined to raise money for several different rescue organizations I support, in honour of Reese.

I arranged a day AND an evening event on the same day!

Although successful, raising just over $1500 and collecting a car full of much-needed supplies, I was physically, and emotionally exhausted by the end of it.

A friend lost her dear Roxie only weeks before we lost Reese

In addition to planning and organizing cupcake day: running errands to collect baked goods, prizes, supplies, donations, etc., I volunteered myself and a co-worker, to do a presentation on ‘Veganism’ for Diversity Week, at the beginning of that same week.

My distraction plan didn’t work. It merely added more stress, and, if I’m honest, it nearly broke me.

I need to be strong for my boys. To do so, I need to take care of myself

As much as we wish for it, we cannot bring back our beloved companions. In my opinion, those experiencing the loss of a pet need to take whatever time is required to grieve and heal the heart as much as possible. Detaching ourselves only delays the inevitable release of emotions.

If we do not allow ourselves to grieve, we will stunt our ability to attach. We will cheat ourselves of the joy of deeply connecting with another person (companion). We will have difficulty remembering the joy if we hold onto the pain. If we do not grieve effectively, we stunt our own growth and will find it difficult to attach again. And we may find it difficult to remember the joy thereby tarnishing the memory of our loved one.

Dr. Edward A. Dreyfus

The loss of a loved one is painful. They take with them a piece of our hearts.

 

Thank you,

 

 

 

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