TIMING IS EVERYTHING
As a volunteer for a local shelter, Leanne’s effort included: dog walking, volunteer training and orientation, and workshops for the public regarding animal behavior and recognizing body language.
During a routine visit to the shelter, Leanne entered the ‘stray’ room and came face to face with Jem, a wolfhound mix, looking dog. “I have always wanted a Wolfhound mix,” notes Leanne. And although smitten, Leanne talked herself out of making an impulsive decision to take this beautiful dog home.
Jem was abandoned in a park in a nearby town, and animal control was called. It is guessed that her owners were surrendering her. Hopefully, a day will come when people make an effort to take animals to a shelter and not just leave them to take their chances, in a park.
We already had a ‘scruffy’ dog – one that looked very much like Jem albeit much smaller.
Even now, looking through photographs, Leanne has a hard time differentiating between the two as they both have that same, unkempt look. DNA results have determined Jem to be a mix of Black Russian Terrier and Great Dane.
The couple also had a greyhound, a retired racing dog from Iowa – W.J.S. Max Moppet (his track name). Leanne briefly recalls how interesting the experience was to watch Max transform from a working race dog to a companion dog.
“Two was kind of my limit,” says Leanne. “I’m a terrible rescuer” she adds with a laugh. “Three adds a whole other dynamic that I wasn’t prepared to deal with. Two is the perfect number.”
Leanne and her husband had Lucky, the scruffy dog, for seven years and he was more than seven years of age when they rescued him. He was getting older. His previous life was spent tied up in a backyard with another dog until the OSPCA seized them.
Only a short time after meeting Jem, while still at the shelter, Leanne received a phone call from her husband, Jeff. Lucky was unwell and unable to hold his head up. Later that evening Leanne and Jeff took Lucky to the vet, and after a consultation it was determined that Lucky was suffering from a collapsed trachea. This is the reason he was unable to lift his head and was having difficulty breathing. At this time, they also discovered that Lucky had lymphoma. The success rate for trachea surgery was not very high, and at fifteen or sixteen years, the couple decided not to put Lucky through the process. Sadly, the difficult decision was made to let Lucky go. It was the kindest thing to do, says Leanne.
It had been less than twenty-four hours since her visit to the shelter. Heartbroken, and feeling as though she had been swept up in a whirlwind, Leanne’s mind kept returning to the dog in the shelter. Jem’s ‘stray hold’ had been removed and Leanne had managed to walk with her on a few occasions. During this time, Jem remained calm and did not react to anything.
She was a real suck and would lean on me during my time with her
Leanne spoke with her husband and asked the shelter manager, if Leanne’s husband agreed and if Jem got along with Max, could they foster to adopt, Jem.
It was agreed and the introduction with both dogs (at the shelter), went well. Jem went home with Leanne in August and was adopted just before Canadian Thanksgiving (October).
It is not uncommon for personalities and traits to change after a period of adjustment. This was the case with Jem. A couple of months after she had been in her new home, Jem started reacting to other dogs, on-leash. Leanne believes Jem is ‘dog selective’ taking particular offense to small dogs. Although she gave no indication of this while at the shelter, it is likely, during that initial period, Jem was shut down. The realization occurred during an introduction to their neighbour’s Goldendoodle. That did not go well, says Leanne.
Further evidence came to light during a visit to Leanne’s parents. Every time their Jack Russell would move, Jem would zone in on him. Although uncomfortable with her reaction, Leanne accepted a further invitation to visit her parents for Thanksgiving. While outside in the garden with the three dogs; Max, Jem, and the Jack Russel, Leanne became aware of a change in Jem’s physiology. Thankfully, Leanne managed to grab hold of Jem before any damage was done. Unfortunately, Jem is no longer welcome at Leanne’s parent’s house.
Had she known that Jem was reactive, she may not have adopted her. It certainly is a challenge, even for Leanne who has taken close to thirty courses and workshops on the topic of ‘positive reinforcement’ dog training. Seven years later, Leanne is doubtful she will be able to eliminate this behaviour. With her training and experience, however, Leanne recognizes and responds to situations in which the behavior is triggered. Avoiding certain settings, and familiarizing herself with her territory and local dogs is also important.
I’m hyper-alert when walking my dogs; I’m conditioned to be that way, now
Perhaps another family would have adopted Jem and upon discovering these traits, returned her to the shelter. Sadly that happens all too often. People claim ‘the shelter didn’t tell me this, or that (about a dog).’ As I pointed out previously, such traits and characteristics are not always apparent until much later, after the animal has adjusted to a new normal.
Sometimes, the universe decides these things for us. The stars aligned when Jem arrived to ease the pain of losing Lucky and Leanne was able to use her experience to manage Jem’s reactivity and provide a loving, forever home for this beautiful girl in need of rescue.
Thank you, Leanne & Jem for sharing your story,
caren gittleman says
February 8, 2019 at 1:54 pmoh this story made me cry!!!! I am so happy all worked out well for Leanne and Jem. Jem is lucky indeed that Leanne understands what shelter dogs go through.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:15 pmLeanne is incredibly knowledgeable, and patient. Jem is a very lucky pup.
Leanne Tucker says
February 12, 2019 at 3:07 pmThanks for sharing the story of our lovely Jemmie. She is the best doggie ever and we are so happy to share our home with her. It makes me sad to see her getting so grey. I want many, many more years with her. 🙂
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:16 pmI hope you do have many more years together xx
Alli Smith says
February 15, 2019 at 11:27 amWhat a beautiful story! I can’t imagine just dumping a dog in the park and walking away. Thankfully, Jem found a forever home.
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:19 pmSadly, this type of abandonment happens much too often 🙁
I’m glad Jem’s story has a happy ending.
Candy says
February 15, 2019 at 11:30 amThe wolfhound Bree’s has always been a favorite of my husband. Big but loving breed of dog
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:19 pmThey are gorgeous and kind-hearted.
cait says
February 15, 2019 at 12:16 pmwell if this is NOT what i should have read this morning ha- so sweet and adorable and thank you so much for sharing such a tribute story of such a sweet dog- so happy for her to find a loving home.
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:19 pmThank you, Cait.
Melissa Chapman says
February 15, 2019 at 1:54 pmThese are such great pictures and who would not want to adopt asweet dog like this. I have two rescues and i know adopting is always the best way to go when you have a pet.
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:21 pmI would love to hear your rescue story, Melissa!
Jeanette says
February 15, 2019 at 1:55 pmThat’s quite the story. Are used to have a dog that I did worry about around other dogs but I decided that as long as I can keep them away from another dog! They are loving I will definitely keep them and I am glad they decided to keep JEM!
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:22 pmI’m so glad you kept yours, and are aware of how to manage. Thanks, Jeanette.
Liz Mays says
February 15, 2019 at 3:32 pmI can see how adjusting to Jem’s personality traits could be a challenge. I’m glad she was able to find a home!
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:23 pmJem lucked out in finding Leanne – that’s a definite.
Natalie says
February 15, 2019 at 4:23 pmWhat a sweet and heartfelt story. I am so glad Jem came into her life at a rough time to comfort her.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:24 pmYes. We can never replace but we can find room in our heart to help another.
Amber Myers says
February 15, 2019 at 4:29 pmI just love this story! I try to always rescue pets who need a home. I think it’s important to do. There are so many animals out there who need a loving family.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:25 pmRescued is our favourite breed 😉
Fatima Torres says
February 15, 2019 at 6:18 pmReading Lucky’s story reminded me of our husky when we got him. He, too, was seven years old at the time. We always joke that he had seven years of bad luck before we had him. Glad she was able to take him on.
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:27 pmYes. They were all lucky to have a home with Leanne.
Marcie W. says
February 15, 2019 at 7:41 pmThis is such a lovely story! I’m glad Jem found her forever home and I’m happy that her humans found her too. Pets are truly so special.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:12 pmI can’t imagine life without them.
Heather says
February 15, 2019 at 8:40 pmI believe that dogs choose us. That’s how I feel with our puppy. She is just perfect for us.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:11 pmThey certainly do find their way into our hearts.
GladysNava says
February 16, 2019 at 5:42 amWow! What a great read. I love this post and it really makes me cry. I am really glad to know about this kind of story. I love this ♥
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:09 pmWe like sharing happy tails!
Beth says
February 16, 2019 at 12:28 pmJem is such a beautiful dog, and I’m glad that she is a loving home now. It does seem like the stars aligned just perfectly for their story.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:06 pmYes, it was meant to be.
Lynndee says
February 16, 2019 at 3:05 pmWhat a heartwarming story! Lovely pictures too. So glad that they found each other and they both look so happy together.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:04 pmA perfect match!
Tabitha Blue says
February 16, 2019 at 6:32 pmAwe, this is so sweet. Those sweet animals need loving too, and it’s amazing how they can fill our home and heart as well. 🙂
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:03 pmThey certainly do!
Terri Steffes says
February 16, 2019 at 9:35 pmI just love dogs and it is always fun to see dogs with their owners. Some even look alike! Great photos.
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Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 1:03 pmThey really do! I tried to convince my husband that he and I, and our two pups should enter a look-alike competition. He and Reese have long noses, and Henry and I are chubby blondes ha ha ha
Ricci says
February 16, 2019 at 10:57 pmThis is a beautiful story! I would also be a terrible foster dog Mom because I would want to keep them all…LOL!
Sadie says
February 18, 2019 at 12:59 pmIt’s difficult to say goodbye.
Pam says
February 21, 2019 at 9:08 amJem looks so much like a dog I had when I was a kid. He is such a cutie!